Back to School Essentials

Blazers

Blazers are perfect for the days you want to look put together. They are also a great staple piece in general because you can dress them up with a necklace or down with a t-shirt and scarf. Overall, it's a piece everyone should have in their back to school wardrobe because of its versatility and comfort.

Cardigans
Nothing says back to school than a nice cardigan. Another piece that is versatile and comfortable and can be dressed up or down just like a blazer.

 Button Ups/Blouses
Blouses and button ups are perfect because they are one of those pieces that make it look like you've tried because they are dressy even though you just threw it on.

 Statement Necklaces
To most people, statement necklaces may not be a must have for back to school but I believe it's super important. The key to looking dressy is to wear statement necklaces! Yes, statement necklaces. You can throw it on with a plain white t-shirt and it transforms an outfit tremendously, therefore, it is perfect for back to school because it requires little effort with a great result.

 T-Shirts
These are a must have for those days you are too tired to get out of bed. Whether you have a graphic tee or just a plain one, a nice, loose fitted t-shirt still gives off a put together look way better than sweatpants and a sweatshirt.

Fashion = Narcissism?: The Truth Behind the Fashion World

If you see someone walking down the street and they are head to toe covered in the brands below, what would you assume to be their personality? Kind and selfless? or Arrogant and rude?

What other adjectives would you describe the personalities of people are rockin' the best outfits?


Well, I'll tell you a few adjectives and descriptions I've heard people say to me...

Self-absorbed            Unable to be active and do adventurous things

"Boojee" (snobby)        All I ever want to do is go to the mall

 "You probably go around just judging what everyone wears" 

"I'm surprised to hear you don't like being the center of attention"

And those are just some of things people have actually said to me but I'm sure people have said many other things behind my back. The funny thing about this is that these were all said in a "friendly" and "playful" way but to me, these definitely had a negative connotation and came from their true opinions.

 Just because I may know of these brands doesn't make me "boojee"

 Just because I enjoy fashion and looking my best doesn't mean I go around judging everybody who doesn't want to do the same.

I may not want to spend the majority of my time outside running but that doesn't mean I don't like to do other outdoor activities for fun.

I may want to go to the mall frequently but why is that a bad thing? It's no different than a person who loves soccer to always want to be out on the field yet going to the mall is given a negative connotation.

And lastly, not everyone who is into fashion is self-absorbed. I'm always there for my family and friends and the last thing they would tell you is that I'm arrogant. These are all ASSUMPTIONS.

STOP ASSUMING.

The Truth about Fashion

Yes, there are people who wear expensive brands and are narcissistic but not only are these kinds of people everywhere, but they are not into fashion for the right reasons. Those who truly love fashion are passionate about it because of its impact, its' history, and the empowerment it gives to people (Recognize the difference between empowerment and arrogance). That is why I love fashion. It has changed my life. It has given me the confidence and power I needed because I was once so insecure. It has given me something to be passionate about and it's one of the only things that picks me up when I'm at my lowest. I wear nice outfits for ME because it makes ME feel good about myself not because I like looking better than anyone else or because I'm trying to impress someone but for ME. People associate expensive brands with people who think they are superior to others but to me, it's like art. Not only is it a stunning piece but it's by a famous designer who has been around for decades or even centuries. It's just like a sculpture or painting. Sure it's nice but it's only valuable or relevant to you because of it's artist. Yet people don't perceive someone who has a van Gogh painting as being self-absorbed. So then why is it that having a Chanel bag means you're a snobby upperclassmen?

Stop assuming you know everything about a person and automatically give them a bad reputation by the clothes and brands they wear. Because style is a way to say who you are without having to speak, you may have an idea about who someone is but that doesn't give you the right to degrade someone without actually meeting them.

I hope this is a wake up call to some of you because I'm tired of having to defend what I believe in and who I am as a person.

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Cut Outs

I'm so happy that I bought this dress because I almost didn't! I love how this can be worn causually or dressed up.

Outfit Details: Dress: H&M Necklace: Forever21 Shoes: Charlotte Russe

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Style Files: What Not To Wear

Disclaimer: Before I begin, I must state that I accept everyone's form of expression in what they choose to wear. Style is a way of self-expression and who am I to judge what you choose to reflect your personality? The following discusses my opinion on how one can look their best no matter what their style is.

WHAT NOT TO WEAR

Clothes That Don't Fit You

A big part of looking fashionable is how clothes fit your body. Do not wear clothes that are too small or too big. If they are too small, not only will it look unflattering but it will also make you feel constricted and uncomfortable. You should feel confident and comfortable in what you wear and if you're wearing clothes two sizes too small, you definitely won't be comfortable. Wearing clothes that are too big will hide your amazing shape and make you look unorganized and sloppy which may be the opposite of who you actually are. Of course there are exceptions such as oversized sweaters etc...

Clothes That Aren't Flattering 

Although the way clothes fit you is a part of how flattering they are on your body, that isn't my point in this particular section. Clothes may fit you but that doesn't necessarily mean it looks good on your figure. For example, shift dresses can make you look boxy and shapeless and peplums can make your hips look wider than you'd like. How well something flatters your body is key to having a well-styled look. A great outfit isn't solely dependent on how things are put together but how they look on your body.

Clothes That Are Dirty/Ripped From Wear and Tear

It may be pretty obvious to not wear dirty, stained and unintentionally ripped items but there are people out there that don't refrain from wearing these items. Wearing these items gives off a sloppy and messy vibe. Not to mention it's just plain nasty!

Clothes That Aren't Age Appropriate

There's nothing wrong with wearing clothes that make you feel youthful if you're a bit older or more sophisticated if you're young but there is a way of doing it and a fine line between young and hip and an old lady trying to fit in little kids clothing. Don't be that person.

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